Wow - I can't believe that she actually looks better on camera! That's some amazing levels of bitchy, there.
I'm exactly where you are about Stephen. I was really impressed with him. I think he had no idea how he came off to others.
Tiffani...I don't know. She seems to me like someone who's developed a very defensive outer shell to combat insecurities, and now she has no idea how to drop it. She's a control freak, she has to do everything herself, and she doesn't want anyone to do better than her.
Which is too bad, because she has moments of being nice. But then she'll go around and lie to everyone to cover her ass. It seems almost pathological lying/bitchiness, like she can't attach to anyone.
...at least, I'd like to think she can't help it. But you're right, she's definitely not self-actualized. She's so far in this world of me, my way, on my own, in control, that admitting failure is impossible.
Re: to both you and tp.
I'm exactly where you are about Stephen. I was really impressed with him. I think he had no idea how he came off to others.
Tiffani...I don't know. She seems to me like someone who's developed a very defensive outer shell to combat insecurities, and now she has no idea how to drop it. She's a control freak, she has to do everything herself, and she doesn't want anyone to do better than her.
Which is too bad, because she has moments of being nice. But then she'll go around and lie to everyone to cover her ass. It seems almost pathological lying/bitchiness, like she can't attach to anyone.
...at least, I'd like to think she can't help it.
But you're right, she's definitely not self-actualized. She's so far in this world of me, my way, on my own, in control, that admitting failure is impossible.