I could. "I know how you hunters are with girls" + "I heard stories from your dad about you and how you treat women" (if that "Who?" line hadn't been in there about John) + "Aren't you still grieving over your dead dad?" = I probably wouldn't have gone near him right now, either, if I were her, pretty face or not. She's in a unique position as a girl if they'd made it so that she'd met John ... she's heard of Dean through John, she already knows his flaws, she's been around hunters enough not to impressed by said nobility, and ... you know, the mourning. If not for that pesky "Who?", though. *grumbles*

As for the controversial thing ... well, you know, girl supposed to hook up with Dean long-term = EVOL. I don't know ... all the bitching in fandom over those spoilers about her and all.