There's not a single word in there that I disagree with.

Women aren't there to wait on guys noticing them and I hate that fact that we're meant to be polite and smiley even when we're saying no. (do I still have the right to say no?)

And then we're looked down for saying no!

And if we're polite about saying no, and they come away with the wrong impression, that's our fault, because we lead them on when they were being nice to us.

*hands you a bottle of vodka, then leaves you to drink it in peace*