OH MY GOD WHY AM I READING THE TWOP BOARDS?!

It seems to mostly boil down to "She was being ridiculous and I would have shoved her."

I finally just said, "And when Jonathan shoved Victoria, she DID stumble somewhat forward. Progress!" and closed the tab. UGH. I really don't think staying on a reality show negates the impact of a man manhandling a struggling woman against her will.