I guess this really does indicate that I had an abnormal childhood. Still sucks when your fandom / favourite con is the source of people's learning experinces.
and once more for the cheap seats, just because no on openly complains doesn't mean that they're ok with things.
This is why my other, other extra-curricular hobbies have all sorts of rules and protocol for ensuring consent. not that it helps avoid dramu-dynes going full bore, but at least it pretexts who's goddmaned responsability it is to ask the correct questions in the correct sequence. pro-tip: it's the initiators job to make sure everything is groovy.
not that i've ever seen drunk-dramu in my own life or anything.
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Still sucks when your fandom / favourite con is the source of people's learning experinces.
and once more for the cheap seats, just because no on openly complains doesn't mean that they're ok with things.
This is why my other, other extra-curricular hobbies have all sorts of rules and protocol for ensuring consent. not that it helps avoid dramu-dynes going full bore, but at least it pretexts who's goddmaned responsability it is to ask the correct questions in the correct sequence. pro-tip: it's the initiators job to make sure everything is groovy.
not that i've ever seen drunk-dramu in my own life or anything.